Rick Santorum: Do You Want Any Women to Vote for You?

by Meredith on February 16, 2012

Dear Mr. Santorum,

You should know that I am a Libertarian.  I am fiscally conservative, although I support social issues that are clearly liberal.  It’s difficult for me as a voter because it is rare that a Libertarian ever has a chance at winning the Presidency.  So I have to take the good with the bad, and cast my vote for what’s more important to me.

I tend to vote Republican.

I don’t agree with everything any candidate has to say.  I don’t think anyone does.  I think we pick through the statements and empty promises to try to find someone that will lead our economy out of this crisis and allow us to experience the freedoms every American deserves.

That being said, I am terrified of you.  If you make it through the Republican Primary and actually become the Republican candidate for President, YOU WILL NOT HAVE MY VOTE.

Are You an Alpha Male?

I was once cyber stalked by a group of Alpha Males (they refer to themselves Alpha Males) who had an entire forum dedicated to hating me because I am a working mother.  Here is a small sample of what they said about me:

Females fail at everything besides raising children and caring after people.

We didn’t get through millions of years of natural selection by having women with “equal rights”.

What kind of man would let his wife hire more kitchen help?  *in reference to our nanny*

women, lol. i wish some sort of major apocalypse would really happen in 2012 (to the extent where only the strong and lucky survive)  the only women to make it through would be guided by men… fukin ingrates srs

women would be totally biased to hiring other women so they can gain some sort of power

lol women. i can’t believe women’s suffrage actually happened. was a bunch of self-entitled stay at home moms who thought they deserved to earn 100k pay checks and graduate high school with a 2.5 gpa.

newsflash: women are worse than men at everything

Nothing new here, most women suck at everything.

Back in the stone-age, a womens job was to give birth, look after children, and care for the sick. Men literally done every other action that was involved in the survival of the species. 

I can’t believe they put a woman in a position that effects the lifes of men.

She probably throws out the resumes of men based on her damaged female pride.

Ouch, right? That hurts. Is that really what men think of women?

To wrap my head around these statements, I spoke to my boss, my male co-workers, my husband, and my dad. They all found what was said to be hilarious and told me to let it go, calling them “giant douche bags that don’t understand the real world.”

I think you’re an Alpha Male, Mr. Santorum.  Your words sound a lot like their words (but with much better grammar and a larger platform).

Here is what you have to say…

On Women In Military Combat

I want to create every opportunity for women to be able to serve this country, and they do so in an amazing and wonderful way, and they’re a great addition and they have been for a long time to the armed services of our country, but I do have concerns about women in front-line combat.

The other example is the emotions of men, dealing with women in combat, and having men not focusing potentially on the mission but on the natural instinct to protect someone that’s a female.

If you’re out there, for example, in a group, or just two people, and some people, because of women, have, as you know with respect to physical capabilities, they don’t have the same requirements that men do in the military, and may be in a position if someone is injured, has to be brought back.

I think that could be a very compromising situation, where people naturally may do things that may not be in the interest of the mission because of other types of emotions that are involved.

On Women Working Outside of the Home

Many women have told me, and surveys have shown, that they find it easier, more ‘professionally’ gratifying, and certainly more socially affirming, to work outside the home than to give up their careers to take care of their children.

The radical feminists succeeded in undermining the traditional family and convincing women that professional accomplishments are the key to happiness.

On Women Who Use Birth Control

I don’t think it works. I think it’s harmful to women. I think it’s harmful to our society to have a society that says that sex outside of marriage is something that should be encouraged or tolerated, particularly among the young. And I think we’ve very, very harmful longterm consequences to our society. Birth control to me enables that, and I don’t think it’s a healthy thing for our country.

One of the things I will talk about, that no president has talked about before, is I think the dangers of contraception in this country

The whole sexual libertine idea; many in the Christian faith have said, well, that’s OK, contraception is OK. It’s not OK, because it’s a license to do things in a sexual realm that is counter to how things are supposed to be.

On Abortions for Women Rape Victims

That child is an innocent victim, to be victimized twice would be a horrible thing. It is an innocent human life, genetically human from the moment of contraception. We in America should be big enough to try to surround ourselves and help women in those terrible situations who have been traumatized already. To put them through another trauma of an abortion, I think is too much to ask. So I would absolutely stand and say that one violence is enough.

The right approach is to accept this horribly created—in the sense of rape—but nevertheless a gift in a very broken way, the gift of human life, and accept what God has given to you.

…make the best of a bad situation.

On Women Marrying Women

[Marriage is] not a right, it’s something that has existed since the beginning of human history as an institution where men and women come together for the purposes of forming a natural relationship as God made it to be. And for the purposes of having children and continuing that civilization. It is an intrinsic good…And as a result of that, we extend a privilege. We extend certain privileges to people who do that because we want to encourage that behavior. 

Two people who may like each other or may love each other who are same-sex, is that a special relationship? Yes it is, but it is not the same relationship that benefits society like a marriage between a man and a woman.

Please Don’t Tell Me He Stands a Chance

Don’t Worry About What You’ve Said About Women, Mr. Santorum.
Your Buddy, Rush Limbaugh, Has Your Back.

Now, they happen to have an interview that Santorum gave years ago in which he talked about this within the context of states’ rights.  He said if the state wants to ban contraception, they should have the right to do that. 

Well, that becomes:  Santorum supports banning contraception.  So to the people in this country who do nothing but have sex mindlessly day in and day out and to whom birth control is only a means of eliminating consequences, you tell them that the Republican Party wants to take away their means of no consequences, and I don’t care what else is going on in the world, 300 nuclear weapons, tax increases, economy being destroyed, you tell that bunch of mindless, brain-dead twerps that they’re not gonna get their birth control pills, and that’s all that will matter. 

They’re gonna vote for Obama on that alone, and that’s what they’re counting on.  Barack Obama and the Democrat Party are aiming at the lowest common denominator.  They have spent decades dumbing down the American people in the education system that they run and that they have run. 

I vote mostly conservative, and I will never vote for you.  I’ll vote for President Obama with the rest of the (what did Rush call women again?) “mindless brain-dead twerps” before I ever cast a vote for an Alpha Male like you.

I pray you don’t make it out of the GOP, because you will ruin the conservative ticket for women voters.

I’d rather be taxed more than be treated like a second rate citizen because I have a vagina.

This isn’t a “radical feminist” thing, sir, this a “women in general” thing.

Sincerely,

Meredith Soleau
A Concerned Conservative Voter

Sources: Rush Limbaugh ShowThink ProgressYou TubeYou Tube , It Takes a FamilyFox NewsCNNCNN

{ 29 comments… read them below or add one }

Mackenzie

I am a fiscal and social liberal and I am deeply concerned and sort of sad for the Rpublican party. I want to happy because this all pans out likely more Obama, who I love down to my pink toes, but Santorum? Gingrich? It’s like watching a slow motion train wreck. It’s embarrassing for the country.

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Meredith

If they would take their religion out of their politics, and THINK before they speak, it would be much better.

I am not crazy about any Republican candidate, although I would vote for Ron Paul (who is actually Libertarian and running on the Republican ticket).

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Meredith

But even Ron has his faults! Just not as many as Santorum.

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Mackenzie

And you didn’t even talk about the crazy making “Personhood Amendment” which will essentially make invitro fertilization illegall, that Santorum supports! If it’s too conservative for Mississippi, perhaps he should rethink. And I say that as Southerner by choice.

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Kendra

I’m a democrat and Santorum scares me pretty much every time he opens his mouth. I also live in Iowa so I got my fill of him for months before the caucus and I’ve stopped reading what he says. I find him scary on a number of levels. I can’t help but think what kind of world would we be giving to our daughters if he was elected President?

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Sarah

He also seems to forget about that whole “Separation of church and state” thing too.

Even though I was never a fan of hers, can we please have Palin back? She wasn’t nearly as scary as this guy.

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Denise

I am about as liberal as they come but I really try to keep an open mind during elections so that I am sure I agree enough with who I vote for. The GOP field this time around is bizarre to me. There are much more moderate Republicans out there who would keep religion out of the politics but they aren’t in the running and I don’t understand why that is. I could never even consider a candidate with such crazy views on women.

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Erin

I share your political stance. These quotes made me sick to my stomach. Jon Huntsman was the Republican’s only chance and having an Obama adversary full of debate, progress, and ideas to move the country forward. Instead, we are left with choosing the lesser of the two evils.

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Amanda

I don’t share this political stance, but I think that your assessment of Huntsman is spot on. I will never understand why the GOP didn’t jump all over him – despite the fact that ideologically Huntsman and I disagree, I think that he would be a great, thoughtful leader.

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Tawny

I support women in combat. I used to work in law enforcement and women are on the frontline in that profession. I never saw any emotional issues or natural instincts to protect the female. If women are allowed to protect their communities why not their country?

Thank you posting this. I have been zoning out lately on the news. You have reminded me to wake the hell up and pay attention. Voting day will be here before I know it.

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Lori

What a great point about law enforcement women being able to protect their communities with no issue. I never thought of it that way! I’ll be using your argument when this topic comes up for the thousandth time in my office. Thanks!

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Dawn

I vote as you do, leaning more conservative, but I’m telling you that if the GOP nominates him to run against Obama, I will vote democrat. Great, informative post. Spot on as usual, Meredith!

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Amanda

I lean (ok, am pretty much off the cliff) liberal. I can’t help but think that Santorum does not in fact want any women to vote for him because he literally does not think of women as sentient human being who make reasonable choices. That said, I do think he is (scarily) consistent in his views. The thought of him being president terrifies me.

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Allison Zapata

He is a FREAK.

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Erin @ Miss Lifesaver

Not only do I find Santorum appalling, but I’m just as angry with his supporters. How could ANYONE support this?????? It honestly scares me that there are so many people who agree with this line of thinking. I shudder to think what would happen if they were given any kind of power over our lives.

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jessee

Thank for tackling these issues point by point. My sister-in-law has pledged undying support for this man and my husband who has never followed politics doesn’t understand what I’m all tiled up about. Luckily he fully supports my liberal feminist ways.

I agree that I don’t understand how any woman can think this man has any of her best interests as a US citizen at heart.

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melanie

jessee-
have you asked your sister in law what she respects/likes about santorum? i’m dying to hear from a supporter in their own words what they hear/see when it comes to him. i can’t even begin to imagine what she would say?!

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Jana

Reading this just gets my blood boiling. Not only do I have to fight the stereotypes every day, from other mothers, from my male co-workers, from other female co-workers whose husbands stay home, so to hear it from a politician who has no idea what “real” people go through every day makes me crave a Female Monarchy. Not saying that this would be any better, but really people. And as far as birth control goes, I would rather buy my daughters those little pills, give them the depo shot, or buy them the Costco version of condoms before I let them have sex unprotected and end up on 16 & Pregnant. Because we always know that those 16 year old marriages last…..really long….and the kids are totally healthy and well-adjusted.

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KB

You go girl. I completely agree. It’s so scary to think my uterus, my job, and my country could be in danger because of someone else’s opinions.

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Ron Morse

Ron Paul is the only one I plan to vote for… If he’s not an option then I will give my vote to Obama (and I am a registered Republican). I have lost all respect for the jokers in Washington and most of the GOP is full of this kind of sentiment that Santorum is spewing. None of them know what it’s like to live in the real world.

I know I don’t Washington getting involved with things that should be non of their business (birth control, abortion, marriage, etc…). Politics in America was not supposed to be a career choice but rather a public service to the country – kinda like jury duty. No one should get paid so much as a politician that they forget how much hard work it takes to make a dollar.

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Pgoodness

This guy scares me. Truly.

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elinor

he scares the everlivin’ crap out of me…
also, maried people use contraceptives; love is not political; I was and know lots of female soldiers (I compleated all my fit tests to male standards) our emotions are a strength; I’ll work outside the home–it’s called putting food on the table–and that will make me a damn good mother; and everybody stop telling me what I can do with MY body… because I have suggestions about what other people can do with theirs.. (sit and spin Santorum, sit and spin)

I vote conservative–but I agree with everything you wrote

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sandy

My guess is if birth control is not used they are going to be a lot of abortions and a lot of new “welfare babies” born. Santorum’s Catholic utopia will not solve problems but in fact create even bigger ones. I don’t like Mitt Romney and Rick Santorum was never on my short list of favorites for the presidency. I guess I’ll have to vote for Obama/Biden again because the candidates for the Republican party are the worst I’ve seen in a long time.

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Kristen

Suffice it to say that I’m far more conservative than liberal (in most respects), but the Republican candidates (besides Paul, and you’re totally right…he’s a Libertarian running on the Republican ticket, and I’m okay with that) terrify me. Gingrich is just a nasty, slimy human being, and Santorum totally belittles women. I’m conservative when it comes to the roles of women generally, but Santorum is seriously just BELITTLING us.

If it comes down to anyone but Paul vs. Obama, I will vote for Obama. Period.

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T. Fram

But it’s perfectly acceptable for feminists to vilify men at every opportunity. It’s okay to write books about how women should rule the world because men are so evil. It’s okay to write of “The End of Men.” But belittling is not okay. Okay. As for all of you Obama voters, if Santorum is so bad Obama is a sure thing thing so why aren’t you happy?

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Meredith

This isn’t a feminist post. This is a post about a man that doesn’t respect women. Did you even read the post?

If so, you would see that I *don’t* want to vote for Obama, but he is a lesser evil than Santorum. However, I would like to vote for someone on the conservative ticket (just not Santorum).

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cynthia

Well, I’d say he has slightly (not much) better grammar! hahaha

I can never figure out if these guys mean what they are saying? Or really believe it? Or even think about it? (Honestly I don’t think most men have that strong of an opinion on womens health issues. Health issues relating to MONEY, yes, but not actually women’s health) Are they just spouting typed out bullet points? DO THEY HAVE PR PEOPLE!?!?!? Or, even scarier, is this what their PR people think Americans want??

It is just all around scary. What happened to this country? I can’t fathom what part of “SEPERATION OF CHURCH AND STATE” they can’t grasp.
Scary, scary, scary.

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cynthia

P.S. I hope you don’t mind if I post this to my FB page.

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cynthia

P.P.S. Rush is just so disgusting and insulting! Yes, sir…I WILL vote for Obama for (mostly) these kinds of issues ALONE. Regardless of the economy, or nuclear weapons, or whatever other bullshit he threw in there.
My health and my rights over MY BODY are important to me and should be to every woman in this country.

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